Sunday 16 August 2015
Friday 14 August 2015
How Third Parties Involvement Ruin My Parents Marriage
My name is oyiza, I am from kogi state in nigeria, An event happened to
me in the course of growing up as a child that is still ever fresh in my
memory and something similar is happening in my marriage presently.
My dad was from kogi state kabba precisely, My mum is from idoma but she lived in lagos and understands yoruba to a fault. My mum is a primary school teacher, My dad was a civil servant in one of the ministries in lagos then.
As a young teenager i knew that my uncles and my aunties where always coming to our house to resolve issues between my dad and my mum ,My father was the one always telling his siblings about how USELESS and disobidient my mother was.
Eventually the issue of my dad letting his families into there marriage became a very BIG ISSUE as every one tagged my mother as the BAD WIFE.
It was a tug of war that lasted for years,Eventually my dad sisters came to our house and threw my mum loads out of the house.
My mum pleaded to come back into the suffering as my mum was always been beating in our presence frequently by my dad.
My mum left and my dads relative had oppurtunity to take over all what my dad and mum had built over the years. Eventually my dad became responsible for the payment of his siblings children school bill at the detriment of his childrens education.
*Me and my folks had to pick up sales girl and sales boy job to further our education with support from the tiny salary mummy was getting.
His business that was booming went into demurage ,he started begging from hand to mouth his sisters and brother abandonded him for that period,i was almost graduadting from school when this strange ailment came upon him, we took him from different hospital to another, Doctors took different tests but nothing was found in his body, we took him to three different churches and we were told that its a spiritual attack that was placed on him by one of his family members that asked for money from him but he didn't give.Fast
forwarded my Dad died 2months to my wedding day. My dad and mum had the best of marriage but trouble started when my dad was always labelling my mum as Evil to his siblings.The most painful thing is that all they laboured for got wiped away in there very eyes as my mum dare not talk where my aunties and uncles are simply because of the way my dad had spoken of her in there presence.
Hence i need help, I have been married for just 3yrs ,we have fought in our marriage but my husband had reported me to his friends and parents more than 3 times his friends call me to now find out what transpired between us.To me i feel so ridiculed as i sincerely hate people putting there mouth in my home affairs, except COUNSELLORS if need should be.
My husband had beaten me before without mentioning it to a single soul. But if its him he wont hesitate to feed his friend and siblings,The first time it happened we talked about it but it happened again 5 days ago,I love my Husband But i dont TRUST HIM AGAIN.I
felt Betrayed by my husband,i dont want what happened to my dad and mum to happen to me as this was the exact way there issues started way back then before it eventually resulted in divorce and then my father died mysteriously just two months to my day of joy.
My dad was from kogi state kabba precisely, My mum is from idoma but she lived in lagos and understands yoruba to a fault. My mum is a primary school teacher, My dad was a civil servant in one of the ministries in lagos then.
As a young teenager i knew that my uncles and my aunties where always coming to our house to resolve issues between my dad and my mum ,My father was the one always telling his siblings about how USELESS and disobidient my mother was.
Eventually the issue of my dad letting his families into there marriage became a very BIG ISSUE as every one tagged my mother as the BAD WIFE.
It was a tug of war that lasted for years,Eventually my dad sisters came to our house and threw my mum loads out of the house.
My mum pleaded to come back into the suffering as my mum was always been beating in our presence frequently by my dad.
My mum left and my dads relative had oppurtunity to take over all what my dad and mum had built over the years. Eventually my dad became responsible for the payment of his siblings children school bill at the detriment of his childrens education.
*Me and my folks had to pick up sales girl and sales boy job to further our education with support from the tiny salary mummy was getting.
His business that was booming went into demurage ,he started begging from hand to mouth his sisters and brother abandonded him for that period,i was almost graduadting from school when this strange ailment came upon him, we took him from different hospital to another, Doctors took different tests but nothing was found in his body, we took him to three different churches and we were told that its a spiritual attack that was placed on him by one of his family members that asked for money from him but he didn't give.Fast
forwarded my Dad died 2months to my wedding day. My dad and mum had the best of marriage but trouble started when my dad was always labelling my mum as Evil to his siblings.The most painful thing is that all they laboured for got wiped away in there very eyes as my mum dare not talk where my aunties and uncles are simply because of the way my dad had spoken of her in there presence.
Hence i need help, I have been married for just 3yrs ,we have fought in our marriage but my husband had reported me to his friends and parents more than 3 times his friends call me to now find out what transpired between us.To me i feel so ridiculed as i sincerely hate people putting there mouth in my home affairs, except COUNSELLORS if need should be.
My husband had beaten me before without mentioning it to a single soul. But if its him he wont hesitate to feed his friend and siblings,The first time it happened we talked about it but it happened again 5 days ago,I love my Husband But i dont TRUST HIM AGAIN.I
felt Betrayed by my husband,i dont want what happened to my dad and mum to happen to me as this was the exact way there issues started way back then before it eventually resulted in divorce and then my father died mysteriously just two months to my day of joy.
The Adamawa State Government earmarked N200 million to engage prayer warriors to seek divine intervention
The Adamawa State Government on Friday announced that it had earmarked
N200 million to engage prayer warriors to seek divine intervention
toward ending the state’s lingering security challenges.
Abdurahman Jimeta, the Chief of Staff to the Adamawa governor disclosed this in a media chat aired on the Adamawa State Television, which was monitored by the News Agency of Nigeria in Yola.
Mr. Jimeta explained that the money was sourced from the state and local governments joint account.
“We have earmarked N200 million for prayers to seek for Allah’s intervention in tackling the Boko Haram menace and other insecurity challenges threatening the stability of the state,” Mr. Jimeta said.
He said that part of that money, which would be spent as security votes, would go into assisting local vigilance teams and security operatives.
On agriculture, he explained that the state government had ordered fertilisers worth over N3 billion for the 2015 farming season.
He called for massive support toward the success of government efforts for a peaceful and stable Adamawa, adding that not much could be achieved in an atmosphere of chaos.
Adamawa is one of the three states most ravaged by the Boko Haram insurgency which has caused the death of about 20,000 people since 2009.
Abdurahman Jimeta, the Chief of Staff to the Adamawa governor disclosed this in a media chat aired on the Adamawa State Television, which was monitored by the News Agency of Nigeria in Yola.
Mr. Jimeta explained that the money was sourced from the state and local governments joint account.
“We have earmarked N200 million for prayers to seek for Allah’s intervention in tackling the Boko Haram menace and other insecurity challenges threatening the stability of the state,” Mr. Jimeta said.
He said that part of that money, which would be spent as security votes, would go into assisting local vigilance teams and security operatives.
On agriculture, he explained that the state government had ordered fertilisers worth over N3 billion for the 2015 farming season.
He called for massive support toward the success of government efforts for a peaceful and stable Adamawa, adding that not much could be achieved in an atmosphere of chaos.
Adamawa is one of the three states most ravaged by the Boko Haram insurgency which has caused the death of about 20,000 people since 2009.
7 Easy Ways On How To Improve Your Knowledge
Knowledge is power and also important because it is related with your
intelligence and awareness. General knowledge is supported by long term
memory and also people who have more general knowledge tend to be
well-liked and respected. A person whose general knowledge is high is
exceedingly open to new skills and experience. So, if you want to become
that person so as to build your insight and increase your knowledge,
follow the 7 Easy steps below.
Review: Your brain needs exercise just like a muscle. If you utilize it often and in the right ways, you will become a more talented thinker and improve your ability to focus. But if you never use your brain, or misuse it with harmful chemicals, your capacity to think and learn will break down. Here are the 7 easy ways on how to increase your knowledge and excel in life.
1. Reduce Television Watching – People love relaxing and doing nothing while watching the television, myself included more frequently than I’d like. The issue is staring at the TV doesn’t utilize your mental capacity. It’s similar to having the energy sapped out of a muscle without the health benefits of exercise. Don’t you feel drained after a couple hours of watching TV? Your eyes are sore and tired from being focused on the light box for so long. You don’t even have the energy to read a book. When you feel like relaxing, try reading a book instead. In case you’re too tired, listen to some cool music. When you’re with your friends or family, leave the tube off and have a conversation. These things utilize your brain more than TV and allow you to relax. However you can watch discoveries, documentaries, crime detective & some IQ movies.
2. Exercise– I used to think that I’d learn more by not exercising and utilizing the time to read a book instead. However, I understood that time spent practicing always leads to greater learning because it improves working well and getting a lot done during the time afterwards. Using your body clears your head and creates a wave of energy. A while later, you’ll feel refreshed and can think straight or concentrate more easily.
3. Read Challenging Books– Numerous individuals like to read prominent suspense fiction, however generally these books are not mentally stimulating. If you want to enhance your thinking and writing ability you should read books that make you focus. Reading a classic novel can change your perspective or view of the world and will make you think in more exact, rich and beautiful English. Try not to be reluctant to look up a word if you don’t know it, and don’t be afraid of dense passages. Take as much time as required, re-read when necessary and you’ll soon grow comfortable with the author’s style. When you adapt to reading challenging books, you’ll find it easier to understand a wide range of works. The challenge of adapting new thoughts or learning new ideas is far more interesting – inspiring than any tacky tension-thriller.
4. Early to Bed, Early to Rise –Nothing makes it harder to focus than lack of sleep. You’ll be most made young again if you go to bed early and don’t sleep more than 8 hours. If you stay up late and repay by sleeping late, you’ll wake up tired and experience difficulty focusing. In my experience the early morning hours are the most peaceful and beneficial – productive. Awakening early gives you more productive hours and maximizes your mental sharpness throughout the day. If you have the opportunity, take 10-20 minute naps when you are hit with a wave of sleepiness or tiredness. Anything longer will make you tired, but a short nap will revive you.
5. Take Time to Reflect and Feel Better –Frequently our lives get so very busy that we become overloaded and surrounded with too much of something without even realizing it. It gets to be hard to concentrate because long-lasting and annoying thoughts keep interfering. Spending some time alone in reflection gives you a chance to sort out your contemplations — organize your thoughts and prioritize your obligations – put in order of importance your responsibilities. After a short time, you’ll have a better understanding of what’s important and what is not. The irrelevant stuff won’t bother you any longer and your mind will feel less burdened.
6. Engage in a Discussion –You can pick a few companions or some friends who are educated and interested to take part in a quality discussion. Individuals that have knowledge in different field are always eager to enlighten or share some good information with you. Regardless if they are specialized in any other subject with respect to general knowledge. With them you can form your own particular gathering which holds information seminars to increase knowledge.
7. Do Some Research –Exploring something informative can actually increase your knowledge. Suppose you’re researching on a particular topic, do everything possible to study and understand the topic. Determine a good reason why the research needs to be done and clarify if it will help you or not. The answer may be based on your academic, personal or expert needs, but it should be your reason for doing an accurate and detailed job.
Review: Your brain needs exercise just like a muscle. If you utilize it often and in the right ways, you will become a more talented thinker and improve your ability to focus. But if you never use your brain, or misuse it with harmful chemicals, your capacity to think and learn will break down. Here are the 7 easy ways on how to increase your knowledge and excel in life.
1. Reduce Television Watching – People love relaxing and doing nothing while watching the television, myself included more frequently than I’d like. The issue is staring at the TV doesn’t utilize your mental capacity. It’s similar to having the energy sapped out of a muscle without the health benefits of exercise. Don’t you feel drained after a couple hours of watching TV? Your eyes are sore and tired from being focused on the light box for so long. You don’t even have the energy to read a book. When you feel like relaxing, try reading a book instead. In case you’re too tired, listen to some cool music. When you’re with your friends or family, leave the tube off and have a conversation. These things utilize your brain more than TV and allow you to relax. However you can watch discoveries, documentaries, crime detective & some IQ movies.
2. Exercise– I used to think that I’d learn more by not exercising and utilizing the time to read a book instead. However, I understood that time spent practicing always leads to greater learning because it improves working well and getting a lot done during the time afterwards. Using your body clears your head and creates a wave of energy. A while later, you’ll feel refreshed and can think straight or concentrate more easily.
3. Read Challenging Books– Numerous individuals like to read prominent suspense fiction, however generally these books are not mentally stimulating. If you want to enhance your thinking and writing ability you should read books that make you focus. Reading a classic novel can change your perspective or view of the world and will make you think in more exact, rich and beautiful English. Try not to be reluctant to look up a word if you don’t know it, and don’t be afraid of dense passages. Take as much time as required, re-read when necessary and you’ll soon grow comfortable with the author’s style. When you adapt to reading challenging books, you’ll find it easier to understand a wide range of works. The challenge of adapting new thoughts or learning new ideas is far more interesting – inspiring than any tacky tension-thriller.
4. Early to Bed, Early to Rise –Nothing makes it harder to focus than lack of sleep. You’ll be most made young again if you go to bed early and don’t sleep more than 8 hours. If you stay up late and repay by sleeping late, you’ll wake up tired and experience difficulty focusing. In my experience the early morning hours are the most peaceful and beneficial – productive. Awakening early gives you more productive hours and maximizes your mental sharpness throughout the day. If you have the opportunity, take 10-20 minute naps when you are hit with a wave of sleepiness or tiredness. Anything longer will make you tired, but a short nap will revive you.
5. Take Time to Reflect and Feel Better –Frequently our lives get so very busy that we become overloaded and surrounded with too much of something without even realizing it. It gets to be hard to concentrate because long-lasting and annoying thoughts keep interfering. Spending some time alone in reflection gives you a chance to sort out your contemplations — organize your thoughts and prioritize your obligations – put in order of importance your responsibilities. After a short time, you’ll have a better understanding of what’s important and what is not. The irrelevant stuff won’t bother you any longer and your mind will feel less burdened.
6. Engage in a Discussion –You can pick a few companions or some friends who are educated and interested to take part in a quality discussion. Individuals that have knowledge in different field are always eager to enlighten or share some good information with you. Regardless if they are specialized in any other subject with respect to general knowledge. With them you can form your own particular gathering which holds information seminars to increase knowledge.
7. Do Some Research –Exploring something informative can actually increase your knowledge. Suppose you’re researching on a particular topic, do everything possible to study and understand the topic. Determine a good reason why the research needs to be done and clarify if it will help you or not. The answer may be based on your academic, personal or expert needs, but it should be your reason for doing an accurate and detailed job.
Tuesday 11 August 2015
GSM OPERATORS GET 7-DAY ULTIMATUM TO DEACTIVATE PRE-REGISTERED SIM CARDS
The Nigerian Communications Commission
(NCC) has issued a seven-day ultimatum to Global System for Mobile
Communication (GSM) and other network providers to deactivate all
pre-registered Subscribers Identification Module (SIM) cards or face
sanctions.
The telecoms regulatory body gave the ultimatum after a high-level security meeting between the office of the National Security Adviser (NSA), Department of State Service (DSS), the network operators and the NCC in Abuja.
At the meeting were the representatives of the NSA, Group Captain, Ibikunle Daramola; DSS, Mr Godwin Ometu; the immediate past NCC executive vice chairman, Dr Eugene Juwah; executive commissioner, technical services, Engr. Ubale Maska and representatives of MTN, Globacom, Etisalat, Visafone, Airtel and others.
A statement by the commission’s director of public affairs, Mr Tony Ojobo, said the directive was sequel to seemingly intractable security situation in the country and crimes committed against members of the public either by kidnappers, terrorists, robbers and threats to lives, through the use of such unregistered SIM cards across all the networks.
The statement read in part: “The meeting resolved that henceforth, all registrations must conform to the data dictionary, technical specifications on finger prints and facial images and the business rule agreed by all stakeholders; all registration records must be validated before sending to the commission; thus eliminating all invalid records that does not conform new registrations and indicate same in the monthly reports sent to commission. It was also resolved that operators will be held liable for cases for cases of pre-registered SIMs.”
The statement noted that while more than 120 million SIM cards have been registered and transmitted to the central database by the operators, about 45 per cent of the total numbers of registered SIMs, as at September 2014, were deemed invalid, adding that less than 30 per cent of the invalid records has been resubmitted for correction till date.
The telecoms regulatory body gave the ultimatum after a high-level security meeting between the office of the National Security Adviser (NSA), Department of State Service (DSS), the network operators and the NCC in Abuja.
At the meeting were the representatives of the NSA, Group Captain, Ibikunle Daramola; DSS, Mr Godwin Ometu; the immediate past NCC executive vice chairman, Dr Eugene Juwah; executive commissioner, technical services, Engr. Ubale Maska and representatives of MTN, Globacom, Etisalat, Visafone, Airtel and others.
A statement by the commission’s director of public affairs, Mr Tony Ojobo, said the directive was sequel to seemingly intractable security situation in the country and crimes committed against members of the public either by kidnappers, terrorists, robbers and threats to lives, through the use of such unregistered SIM cards across all the networks.
The statement read in part: “The meeting resolved that henceforth, all registrations must conform to the data dictionary, technical specifications on finger prints and facial images and the business rule agreed by all stakeholders; all registration records must be validated before sending to the commission; thus eliminating all invalid records that does not conform new registrations and indicate same in the monthly reports sent to commission. It was also resolved that operators will be held liable for cases for cases of pre-registered SIMs.”
The statement noted that while more than 120 million SIM cards have been registered and transmitted to the central database by the operators, about 45 per cent of the total numbers of registered SIMs, as at September 2014, were deemed invalid, adding that less than 30 per cent of the invalid records has been resubmitted for correction till date.
Sunday 9 August 2015
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Saturday 8 August 2015
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